-Charles Dickens

The Christmas weekend is here and I am gearing up for my annual life lesson from actor Jimmy Stewart in the movie “It’s a Wonderful Life.” In the movie, George Bailey (aka Jimmy Stewart)  spends his entire life doing selfless things for others. From saving his younger brother from drowning, to giving away all his cash to save the family business, George created a blessed life for many…including himself. But George, like all of us, ran into some trouble that made him doubt all the good decisions he made in his life. He let the bad overshadow the good. In the movie, he had the chance to see what life would be like without him, and it was that “viewing” that made him realize how special he was.

Take a minute right now and close your eyes and think of three amazing things you did in ’11. Then think of how many people you touched while doing those things. Then think of how many people they touched. Once you fully understand the power you have to change the world you can then understand how much positive impact you have on your company, sales territory, customers and everybody you meet. You, my friend, are a blessing.

On behalf of the Sullivan kids (and Mom and Dad), we want to thank you for tuning in each week for the PRECISE Selling weekly tips. God bless you and your family this Holiday Season!

President of Kansas City-based PRECISE Selling, Brian delivers seminars and internet training programs on sales, customer service, leadership and presentation skills to companies of all sizes.  He also hosts the radio talk show Entrepreneurial Moments, a show dedicated to personal and business development. To find out more, visit him at www.preciseselling.com or email Brian at bsullivan@preciseselling.com.

Since Jan 25th the world has been reminded by Egypt that freedom doesn’t come easily. For many, it’s taken for granted. Perhaps the greatest reward of freedom is that it gives us the opportunity to take risks, be innovative and make the most out of the gift. So what can you do to make the most out of your gift? First, enjoy it! Then use it to do more than what you are doing now.

This week think of what you would miss most if you didn’t have the freedom you do now. Would you miss the rewards that come with working harder than your competition? Would you miss the adrenaline rush that comes from meeting an almost unrealistic objective you set. Would you miss being able to do, say and be whatever you want to be without fear of somebody stopping you? If so, then it’s time to make the most out of it. Set your mind and imagination free. Let it out! Then get out of its way. Because wasted freedom is wasted opportunity.

Brian Sullivan is President of PRECISE Selling and a talk radio host. This week he interviewed author Josh Tolley and discussed how YOU can be bold in your professional and personal life. Don’t miss the chance to listen to this great interview. Check it out at www.preciseselling.com/Radioaccess.htm.

Election season is over and “anger” was the theme. Liberals are
angry with Conservatives. Republicans are angry with Democrats. And
Independents are angry with everybody. Why is it that election
season brings out the worst emotion in so many people? While anger
is sometimes the fuel of action, too often it is an emotion that
slows us down.

In fact, psychologist Dr. Ernest H. Johnson of Raleigh, NC says
“When we’re angry, there’s damage done to the systems that keep us
healthy.” So in short, if you want to stay healthy, sometimes you
need to just “let it go.” Easier said than done? YES…it is! But if
your job as a salesperson, business owner, coach or parent is to
positively affect others, how can you do it with an emotion that
people want to run from. Think about it. When was the last time you
heard somebody say, “I love that guy because he is always so angry.
It’s awesome!”

So this week let the season of anger give way to a season of
happiness. And whatever is driving you crazy right now needs to get
out of your way. Because you have a choice about what you will show
the world. Show them the best that’s in you. And while the
competition is spewing about what’s so wrong, you will be the one
using happiness as your greatest weapon to getting to the TOP.

To sign up for a free online sales and communication training
program that is sure to make you HAPPY, go to
www.precisesellingonline.com. Or visit us at www.preciseselling.com.

“Life is a resume of memories. Choose this day to add to it.”
-Brian Sullivan

What do you remember most about your Holidays of the past? Take a minute right now to think of three of your best memories. Was it running around a basement as a child on Christmas Eve with your favorite cousins? Or perhaps it was that first New Years Eve you spent with the love of your life.  So what’s next? What memory will you create, what story will be told, what gift will you give THIS YEAR that will be thought of and talked about for years to come?

So this week before you get away from work to spend time with friends and family, think of the most important and clear objective…to do everything you can to add to your resume of memories. Because customers, jobs, bosses, employees and the Holidays themselves all come and go. But what remains are the memories you purposefully create this year. Don’t waste the chance to make this season the one you look back on as one of the best ever. And on behalf of the PRECISE Selling Company, which includes my wife and three kids, thank you for including us, albeit in a small way, into your home and workplace each week. Have a blast and God Bless you and your family!

Ask the most successful people in sales, leadership, parenting and life how they got there and they will tell you that all the knowledge and skill they need lives in the minds and bodies of others. All they did was seek it out. And that is the consistent quality of top performers. They look at every conversation as a way to become smarter and more skilled. Whether they use that knowledge to sell more, lead more or serve more, it doesn’t matter. What does matter is that they realize that do not have all the answers.

These same people take pleasure in passing that knowledge on. Because they know by giving, they will, in fact, get more than they gave…either now or later. So this week:

• Seek out the three most successful people you know, or would like to know, and ask for help.
• Then prepare a list of three specific and well though out questions.
• Listen and learn.
• Act on that knowledge and record it
• Then share it with others who could also use it

By making this a habit, your value to everybody around you will increase. And in the process, you will build a network of mentors and friends that will do everything they can to make sure you get to the TOP…quickly.

“It’s wonderful to have a beginner’s mind.”
-Steve Jobs
Co-founder and CEO of Apple

My three-year old daughter only recently discovered her Daddy’s iPhone. As she picked it up, she began pressing every button. As her finger accidentally slid across the screen, she noticed she could make things move. And if she pressed that button on the bottom, music came on. The more noises and movements the phone made, the more curious she became. After loading it up with a few Toddler games, she became hooked. Three weeks later, Maggie can now do more on that thing than her Daddy and is a regular shopper in the Application Store.  She keeps looking for the phone to do more, and with curiosity as her fuel she keeps making new discoveries.

So what about you? Are you as curious as you were when you were a child?  If you said yes, then it means you are NOT satisfied with what you already know. It means you feel challenged, not burdened when a new technology enters your life (either willingly or unwillingly). It means you don’t look for answers to be given to you but are thrilled when it is your job to find the solution. It means you don’t see the world for what it is, but instead for what it should be. So STAY CURIOUS, and you will realize there is no END to the potential that your “beginner’s mind” brings to your sales region, company, industry and world.

Half the time people think they are talking business, they are wasting time.
-Edgar Watson Howe

Think of the number of meetings you attend each week. What percentage would you say are a waste of time? If you are like many, that percentage is high. Because too many meetings take too long, get too little done and often only add to the confusion that existed before the meeting. Studies show that one key reason meetings are unproductive is because too much time is spent going over the same topics discussed in previous meetings.

So this week, follow these tips to a successful meeting (or sales call).

•    Have a clear objective. A good objective is what you want the people in that room to do as a result of you being there. In other words, it’s not about what you do, it’s about what THEY do as a result of you being in that meeting.

•    Simplify- Quit “re-visiting” old issues. Then pick no more than three action items that must take place as a result of the meeting. If you walk away with fifty things that need to be done, not all will get done. And the stuff you do get to will not be done as well as it should.

•    Shorten- Cut the time you set aside for meetings in half. The urgency to get things done will force you to trim the BS and help you accomplish more.

In short, be PRECISE. Which means exact, sharply defined or stated. And by following the lessons above, you will find you are about to get twice as much done in half the time.

The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing.
-Albert Einstein

“I’ve been in this business for over 25 years. I have run out of things to learn,” was one of the saddest comments I have ever heard from one of my recent seminar attendees. Stop learning? Don’t we need to learn from our customers so we can effectively serve them? Don’t we need to learn what our competition is doing? Don’t we need to learn how our peers and employees feel about working with us? Don’t we need to learn how much we DON’T know? Once you lose your hunger to learn, you lose the ability to positively affect everybody around you. And who would choose that? And it’s not enough to be open to learning; you have to aggressively seek opportunities to learn.

For example, this week try these three questions with your current customers…and family members:

•    What am I doing I should keep doing?
•    What am I doing I should stop doing?
•    What aren’t I doing that I should begin doing?

Because customers, peers, employees and family members won’t often seek you out to tell you how you can be more valuable to them, you have to ask. And when you ask, you show a willingness to learn. And once you create a habit of LEARNING, you will create a habit that creates some of the world’s top performers.

Think about how many people you came into contact with yesterday. Now ask yourself, “How many of those people did I learn from, and what specific lessons did I take away?” If you can’t recall any substantive lessons, it’s not because they weren’t available. It just means you didn’t search for them. Truth is, all the knowledge we need to be top performers resides in the minds of the people we meet everyday. And the only difference between those that make it to the top and those who aspire to get there is top performers ask more questions in EVERY conversation they have. They realize they don’t get smarter by telling others all about themselves and their “product,” but rather by learning as much as possible from others.

So this week, add more who, what, why, where and whens to every conversation. And when you ask, LISTEN and learn from what is being said. Don’t think of your next question… just listen. And with your newfound interest in others, you will find the world’s most powerful search engine is not GOOGLE. It is YOU!

The way to succeed is to double your error rate.
- Thomas J. Watson (1874-1956)
Former IBM Chairman and Master Salesman

Have you made any big errors lately? If so, congratulations….you’re human! And chances are you are not a wimp, afraid to make a wrong decision that just might not work out perfectly. You see, the people in our world that become famous in anything are not those who do things perfectly, but those who do things well after screwing up a bunch of times. The difference between the top performers and the average, however, is that the average are often frozen by fear of not doing something perfectly. So they don’t try it, don’t make the big decision, don’t ask for the sale, don’t take that business risk, or don’t reach out to that long lost friend. Because the fear of “what if” and the paralysis that it brings can bring about a harmful stagnation in our lives. Life is about movement, either up and down, and if you aren’t moving down from making errors or moving up from learning from them, than you aren’t moving at all. And if you’re not moving, the world is just passing you by. So this week, think of that big decision that is scaring the heck out of you and go for it. It might not work out perfectly, but even that less than perfect decision will be better than no decision at all.